thepeacefulgarden

Spiritual Self-Care Can Look Like...

Praying or meditating
Spending time in nature
Attending worship if you choose
Deconstructing, and questioning what you've been taught
Letting go of purity culture (that doesn't mean you have to jump into hookup culture, and it's not "anything goes.")
Absolving yourself of responsibility for other people's choices
Forgiving yourself for your mistakes, and giving yourself grace and compassion as you strive to do better and be accountable
Practicing gratitude, even (especially!) when it's hard
Mindfulness and grounding
Joyful movement
Resting, and not feeling guilty about resting
Participating in rituals and celebrations that are meaningful to you (and letting go of ones that aren't)
Sitting with your feelings
Learning to discern intuition from trauma, learning to trust yourself
Getting in touch with your cultural heritage, learning the things your ancestors knew
Making art, writing stories, and being creative, just for its own sake. (Even if it's "not very good," or wouldn't make it into an art gallery.)
Setting up a small altar in your home
Taking a ritual bath, or even just taking a shower after a rough day
Reading sacred texts
Being kind to yourself and others
Leaving a religious group that does not suit you anymore, or that never did in the first place
Finding your own path, even if it's not the one your parents and culture mapped out for you at birth
Listening to a spirit guide (whatever form they might take in your culture or belief system)
Letting go of shame
Starting over
Letting go of bad habits
Decluttering
Getting away from screens, even just for a little while
Volunteering, doing good deeds
Slowing down
Practicing self compassion
Listening to your conscience (and learning to distinguish it from trauma and insecurities), deciding not to do something that "feels wrong"
Working through religious trauma and generational trauma
Letting go of grudges and resentments towards others, practicing forgiveness (not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace)
Processing your feelings, sitting with them, and accepting them as valid

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shinystarfishmoon

Your next boyfriend or girlfriend

Take 3 deep breaths and choose your plies you can chose more then one ☺

Disclaimer : this reading is just for fun take it with grain of salt 👾

Deck uesd :star spinner tarot

Also this a general reading just for fun perpous take what resonates and leave what doesn't

If you like this reading please like and reblog this post and tell me which plies you picked 🙏

Plie 1💅

Cards : five of cups, six of swords, king of cups, page of wands, the fool, 10 of wands, 4 of wands, death

Hello pile 1 💅

I got some messages of past relationships some of you may have been in if not please take what resonate

So in someone of your past relationships you guys may have dealth with frequent arguments and disagreements which in turn resulted in your past relationships not working out. And let you kind of depressed.. Also for those of who may not resonate with what I said earlier you guys may have felt kind of stuck in you past relationships because of the frequent arguments.. And finally made the decision to break the relationship and move on ( with 6 of swords) you might be sad about it. Sweet heart some time we have to leave people behind to move for ward . You are not the bad person,, it's just the way life is 💗 you are brave to leave people those who not bring meaning to your life 💅 slay queen ( king). With the death cards signify they end of a old cycle the old cycle had to end for a new one to begin . The person coming in your life is very emotionally mature, good with communicating their feelings... Communication will be a big part of this relationship. They may really like to listen to you. May find your voice nice and claming. Might be older then you, very reliable, free spirited, they will put lots of afforts to prove that they are worthy of your love my dear 💗. This could also trun into major commitment pretty quickly

Messages :

Don't you stop

You make me loss my mind ( in a loving way 🐥)

Songs :

Plie 2:🦄

Hello pile 2 welcome to your reading 💗

Cards : 7 of swords, nine of cups, 4 of coins,the world, 4 of swords, temperance , 10 of cups

In pile two we have some messages related to the past keep what resonates leave what doesn't

In your past relationships some one may have been sneaky or you were cheated on by your past lovers ( sorry if it's true) this may not be physical cheating but seems more like emotional one. This lead you to have hard time trusting anyone in matter of love . It may even be your worst nightmare to be cheated on again 🙂. But trust me the person coming in your life is make you believe that you are worthy of love that's it was not your fault . With the world card this relationship will be a new cycle of life you will be staring, your next your next relationship would be a balanced one and you would not feel like your are the only one putting effort into the relationship. It will be both ways. Also this relationship will happen on divine timing be patient dear 💗 your next partner may be working in law or may be interested in it, could be in medical field . May have long hair, every balanced person, perfectionist

Messages

I am staying here for a long time

Let me love you please

You are worth it

Listen to me

Songs :

Plie 3 :👾

Cards : 8 of cups, 8 of wands, moon, page of cups, king of cups, two of cups

Hello pile 3 welcome to your reading :

This is the only plie where I didn't get anything related to past relationships . This is my never have been in a serious relationship plie 😁 . Whatever let's get into your reading shall we... This connection feels like the soulmate kind of relationship, like the one when you know somepeople are just mentioned for each other 😭... This relationship will have healthy balance at indiviadual as well as relationship level . You Guys together will be ready to take any obstacle that come your way ( couple goals right here ☺) they will bring out a child like energy in you. You would have to hide your true self in front of them. This person may be rich them self or comes from a rich family, emotionaly mature, may have facial hair if a man., if women may have long hair may have pets like dog or rabbit., especially rabbit 🐰

I didn't get any messages for plie 3 also with moon card I feel like this is how much I am supposed to share 💗